Cancer Sucks

I hate cancer. You know how they say that in your life, someone you know will have cancer? Well, unfortunately I have known too many. Too many people that are close to me. My mom was the first and she fought it twice and fought it hard. She won her battle but it wasn't easy. I am so thankful that I still have my mom, but my heart is breaking for two very special people right now. For thirty years, Grant and I lived in South Carolina. In the three weeks that we have been gone, both of our best friends have lost their moms. It has been hard for us not being able to be there for them physically, but I hope they know that we are always here for them.

I remember the day in May so clearly. I had just gotten home from work and was walking inside when my phone rang. It was Jill. One of my oldest and dearest friends. After talking for a few moments, I knew something was wrong. I asked her if she was ok and she said,"No. Mom was just diagnosed with pancreatic cancer." My heart dropped into my stomach. I tried to offer her words of encouragement and told her I knew what she was feeling and what she was going through as I had gone through the same feelings when I found out that my mom had cancer. After we hung up, I called my mom and just cried and cried. My heart was just broken for Jill.  Jan fought hard. For two months she fought hard and Jill was by her side every single day. Jill was so strong and so brave and I admire her so much for all that she did for her mom (and for her dad too). On July 20th, Jan lost her fight. She is no longer suffering.

Jill, I know you are reading this and I want you to know how much I admire you. You are so strong and did more than most people would have been able to. You are an amazing person and I know your mom is so proud of you. I feel honored that I got the chance to know her.  I love you and I am always here for you!

Grant's long time best friend is John. John's mom Gloria was diagnosed with breast cancer 5 years ago. She has fought long and she has fought hard. Yesterday we received the call that Gloria had lost her fight. In three weeks, both of our best friends have lost their moms. It just doesn't seem right.

                  Be thankful for every day that you have with your friends and family.